We’ve all been there. The relationship ends and you can’t help wondering, “Was it my fault?” “Did I do something wrong?” “What if this was my one chance and I just blew it?”

I am here to tell you today that it was not your fault. It was no one’s fault. You did not do something wrong, you did everything right. And most importantly you will have many opportunities to love again. Yes you will!

The first step to mending a broken heart is to be armed and ready with affirmations to break the cycle of obsessive thinking. Here are a few affirmations for you to not only heal that heart but help you bring harmony back into your life:

I am perfect love.

I am whole and holy.

All is forgiven and released now, past and future generations to come.

Out of this experience only good will come. (This one is my favorite from Louise Hay.)

Next, I’d like to take you through a beautiful healing gifted from Archangel Metatron. This will help you to move through that stuck energy of feeling alone and unworthy.

Take a deep breath and place your hand on your heart. Imagine a beautiful beam of light coming from your right hand that begins to draw the pain out of your heart like a magnet.

Allow the pain to rise to the surface, bubbling up. Feel the energy in your hand get hotter and hotter, more intense as the light continues to draw the pain up and out.
Now hold your other hand upward toward the heavens. As you pull the pain from your heart, from your body with the light in your right hand, allow this beautiful light from heaven to move into your left hand.

Now imagine this light from heaven coursing through your veins moving into your heart to heal that open wound, that open space that has been created as the pain leaves your body.

Your heart holds all of the memories from all of the lifetimes that you have ever lived here on this planet.

So oftentimes when you are in a relationship and it comes to a close or there is disharmony these emotions trigger programs from past lives and all of the pain bubbles up to the surface.

Just allow this pain to be drawn into your hand that is being held over your heart and as it rises up out of your body, your hand instantly transmutes the pain, dissolves and evaporates it.

The truth is that you are perfect love.
There is nothing broken.
There is nothing that needs mending.

It is your attachment to others and your expectations, the constant judging of good or bad that keeps you stuck in pain, in a broken heart. You are constantly surrounded by angels and beings of light who bring much healing and much love helping you return to that which you are – perfection.

The third step in mending a broken heart is to take back your power.  Remember who you are. You are a magnificent, glorious being of love and light. All of your experiences here are helping you to expand, to grow and evolve into more of who you came here to be.

There are no accidents.
You have done nothing wrong.
Everything is unfolding exactly as it should.

Let go of your attachments to the people in your life, to the love or the brokenness in your relationships. There is no brokenness, ever. It is always perfection.

Trust. Believe that there is a higher order working in your life, always and as you let go of your attachments to people, to expectations to wanting things to be a certain way you will find a beauty and a grace, you will find inspiration that will assist you in aligning with your soul.

Remember you have a plethora of angels helping you to align with your highest good. Ask for help and be open to receive it.

Julie Geigle is a gifted channel of Archangel Metatron, a 4th generation Psychic Medium and Spiritual Healer. She effortlessly tunes into messages from your angels to guide and direct you in your life. Business & relationships is her specialty. Julie is a radio host of “Angel Talk Tuesday” on omTimes Radio. Pick up your free gift “Manifesting Miracles” at http://www.juliegeigle.com.