Sometimes we take on the burdens of our loved ones whether it be a spouse, child or parent especially if we are highly intuitive or sensitive or in touch with our psychic abilities. It’s difficult to watch someone make bad choices in their lives.  We want to step in and help them out, show them the way.

While that may be all well and good sometimes God has a different plan and we may be interfering with God’s work. It’s important for us to remember that we all have our own cross to carry and path to walk down.  God wants us to focus on our own business.

Our role on this earth is to be a guiding light, filled with love and forgiveness for ourselves and for others.

Our place is not to judge, condemn or control.  Sometimes our fears take us down that path.  We are afraid that if we don’t step in and do something the situation will spiral out of control.

I am here to tell you through my own challenges in life that the angels have everything under control, ALWAYS.  You interfering often times makes things worse instead of better because there is a thing called natural consequences.  And when you step in and intervene you thwart the effects of natural consequences to be experienced by that person.

Honestly, we fret and worry and worry and fret about loved ones all the time from our partner to our children to our parents.  This actually does more harm than good and renders you powerless.

Your power lies in your own backyard.

The first place to help others is to start with your SELF.  No matter how bad off the other person is…change begins with YOU. Heal yourself.  Love yourself.  Make YOU a priority in your life. Then you will begin to see with clarity and perspective.  Your divine guidance will begin to come in loud and clear.  There is no need to fix anything.

The angels have it all under control.

There are no mistakes, only opportunities for learning. When you put all of your time and energy into being the beautiful, loving person God made you to be you become powerful.  That is how you help other people, because it is from that place of power that you approach life with a heart of gladness and gratitude instead of worry and judgment.

And from that place of love your angels can now work with their angels to help things begin to turn around in their life.

Another powerful thing you can do for someone in your life who is going through a difficult time is to PRAY.  Let go of judgments, fear and guilt and ask for God’s help.  When you do this you increase your vibrational frequency and unleash miracles all around you and guess what?

Miracles are contagious!

So if you know of someone who needs a miracle, be a miracle by staying in that place of love and light instead of doom and gloom.

Everything is ALWAYS exactly as it should be.

And by the grace of God, it is so.

We’d love it if you’d leave a comment below.  How do you deal with people who continually dump on you?  How do you set boundaries with loved ones and friends?  Do you need HELP dealing with these issues?  Just ask us here and we’ll help you figure it out! ♥