Sometimes it’s hard to ask for what you want but know that you ARE worth it!

How do you ask for what you want?

1.  Visualize the Outcome.  Visualize asking for what you desire (assuming of course you are being fair and reasonable) and the other person being happy to oblige.  Everything working out easily and effortlessly in your favor and then stepping into feeling strong, confident and courageous that you were able to stand in your power and speak your truth.  Yay!!

2.  Roleplaying.  I’m a huge fan of roleplaying.  I usually ask a friend to help me work through the conversation so the words roll of my tongue with grace and ease.

3.  Lighthouse.  I’m an energy person so I call in the white light.  I surround myself, the other person and the experience as a whole with a beautiful white light.  I like to visualize a magnificent lighthouse shining down helping the ships in the harbor find their way home safe and sound.  Asking that whatever is in my highest good, for my best interest and the best interest of all occur.

Now you are ready.  Make an appointment with the other person or ask divine guidance to create the perfect time to naturally occur for the conversation to take place.  I’m amazed that when I do the latter it always works out perfectly but when I try to create the time all by myself I just procrastinate and then never do it.

So GOOD LUCK.  You can do this.  YOU are worth it!  Go ahead and ask for what you want because the worst that could happen is that you don’t get it but you get something else instead…practice and experience so the next time it will be easier and feel even more empowering!  ♥