Just a little respect…

Third Times the Charm March 2012

Say each thought lovingly to yourself every day and watch magical things begin to happen:

♥  People trust and respect me.
♥  I naturally attract respect because I respect myself.
♥  I radiate love and respect and receive love and respect in return.

 

 

Expand your awareness with wonderful words:

adamantine \ad-uh-MAN-teen\, adjective:

1. Utterly unyielding or firm in attitude or opinion.
2. Too hard to cut, break, or pierce.
3. Like a diamond in luster.

As Dr. Phil tells us, “We teach people how to treat us.”  And even old dogs can learn new tricks so, if you’ve been in a relationship for 30 years don’t give up.  Here’s a 3 step process to help you stand in your power and receive the respect you deserve.
  • Set the Stage:  Explain that it’s no longer okay to belittle you or use inappropriate language during an argument.
  • Warning, Warning: Share that the next time this behavior occurs you will have a special word or signal to let the other person know you are offended (for example: Wouldn’t roses be wonderful right now? or HOTDAMN!).
  • Take Action:  Be prepared to leave.  You can simply take a walk or go to the library for a few hours or walk around the mall, but “leave.”  www.priceline.com has great prices on last minute hotel reservations and you can book a nice room for just $50.

There are 2 keys to this technique:  1) Do not get into a lengthy discussion.  This is not the time to argue, justify or explain.  This is the time to step into your power and DO.  2) Be consistent.  It’s like potty training a puppy.  If you react differently every time the puppy wets the floor you only confuse him and it takes twice as long to get the results you desire.

Being adamantine in your relationships may be difficult, especially if you’ve let someone walk all over you for many years, but it’s never too late to heal, to grow, to change!!  Good luck and let me know how it goes.

And remember, if you hear, see or feel it three times ~Pay Attention~ it means the Universe is speaking to you.

Julie Geigle

Julie Geigle is an international psychic medium, spiritual teacher of the Golden Age Mission and manifesting diva. She teaches people on a spiritual journey how to find inner peace and live the happiest version of themselves. Julie is the creator of Lightworker's Academy, online courses to assist you on the journey of awakening and enlightenment. Create more joy in your life when you sign up for our weekly Energy Forecast and receive your free gift "Manifesting Miracles" audio download.

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