Will I Ever Love Again?

Welcome to Channeling: Messages from Spirit.  Our question today is…“Is this the year that I will meet my love?  Will I have a love life again?

Email your question for Spirit to geiglej@yahoo.com.

Spirit:  We ask you what is the purpose for the question?

Jane:  I’m lonely.  I need a partner.  I want a partner.

Spirit:  We ask you to become aware that you are looking outside of yourself to fill yourself up.  Whether you do this with alcohol or food or shopping or a love, it is essentially the same.  You will never find someone to fill you up. 

Having love come into your life is a direct result of loving yourself, feeling whole and complete.

Otherwise what you bring into your life, what you attract into your life is that part of yourself that is incomplete and not whole and is typically an unhealthy relationship and only brings its own set of problems for you.

We ask you if you are lonely, it is because your ego has convinced you that you are separate.  When you become aware that that is an illusion, that the reality is that we are all one, that everyone in this room is simply a reflection of you, of me. 

You are never alone.

You are infinite love, whole and completeness.  When the emotion arises, “I am lonely”, that is simply an indicator that you are out of alignment with the nature of your being.  That you are believing the illusion that the ego is creating for you.

The ego, the thought in your mind says to you, you need someone, you’re lonely, you can’t be happy until you have someone in your life.  You believe that and then you really feel lonely.  We are saying that is an illusion.  When you become aware that the thoughts in your mind are not who you are, you have another choice.  You can step out of the illusion and into the reality, into the real truth that is the backdrop. 

We are spiritual beings having a human experience. 

I am lonely is an indicator that you are out of alignment with the nature of your being and that you are forgetting and that you are believing the illusion.  When you become aware that you are forgetting and that you have a choice, you can stay in fear, in the lower vibrational frequency, in your pain and loneliness, in your belief system of “I am not lovable” and you have a choice when you become aware that this is occurring.

Who is the person in yourself that becomes aware that you have a choice?  It is your spiritual being.

It is that inner voice.  It is the whisper of God, whispering in your ear, you are not alone.  You are worthy, you are deserving of love, you are harmonious, light, eternal.  Then you step into that beautiful space, being one with God, of knowing that there’s a bigger force in your life and that there is someone special waiting just for you.

When you are in that space of love and harmony and light, magnificent people show up.

When those magnificent people show up they are simply bonus because you don’t need them now, you’ve never needed them.  All that you are is all that you ever need.

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Julie Geigle

Julie Geigle is a Spiritual Life Coach, Healer, Psychic Medium and Divine channel for Archangel Metatron. She helps people on a spiritual journey end suffering and create a beautiful life. Book a free discovery call to see if you're a good fit for our Spiritual Mentorship Program designed to change your life from the inside out! https://heavensenthealing.us/vip


  1. Sammi Johnson on June 2, 2012 at 11:49 pm

    Thank you for the inspiring message. Some people keep on stressing themselves out looking for a partner, but you just left us a beautiful reminder here. I am enough, I am whole and I am never alone. Very beautiful post, Julie. xoxo

  2. Megan Potter on May 28, 2012 at 3:00 pm

    I’m in total agreement that so much of what we do comes from trying to fill ourselves with something outside of ourselves – and that that never works. The most revelationary things are so often the simplest aren’t they: I am Enough! So simple, yet so powerful.


  3. Teresa on May 27, 2012 at 4:18 pm

    I’ve written often of my soul-family shattering the myth of alone. We are all connected, with each other, with our Source, with the natural world around us. Beauty everywhere – in small things and all things.

    Hugs and butterflies,

  4. Patty Tanji on May 27, 2012 at 2:08 pm

    Beautiful, inspiring words! We are never alone. Believing the illusion that the ego created. Oh if I could only remember that believing is not necessarily seeing. Thanks so much.

  5. Jackie on May 25, 2012 at 4:28 pm

    Great reminder to people that we are all enough, we don’t need to convince ourselves of a need for others or for things.

  6. Bri Saussy on May 25, 2012 at 12:19 pm

    Lovely, empowering message that applies to so many who are dealing with sadness and heartache!

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